Using the internet for learning is not a new phenomenon, not in this day and age. Our children have
grown up with technology and are quite adept at using it. In many cases, they are more comfortable
than us and very often, they teach the adults how to use it. So, if they are the ‘experts’ in technology,
how do we as parents keep them safe? What can we do to help support their learning through online
technologies?
Learn the Tools
First, take the time to learn about the variety of online tools for your child. There are a myriad of ways
your child may be accessing technologies. Apps, eLearning databases, internet, games, and any
combination of the above. Find out when, how, and where your child can be online to maximize their
learning opportunities. Spend some time exploring online, but also rely on the school. Many times,
teachers and schools will have specific programs the students can use with a subscription based service,
or they may be able to recommend safe games and apps. Learning the tools is extremely important, but
remember, you don’t have to go at it alone.
Talk to Your Child
Once you know what programs, apps, or games, you child will be using, you can’t stop there. You have
to take the time to talk regularly with your child about their online activities. Decide ahead of time what
your family expectations will be. Do you want your child to come to you if they need to purchase
something? Make an account? Talk with others? What will happen if they need access the computer or
device when you are not home? These are all decisions that will be easier for your child to make if you
have discussed them before they start using the technology regularly. But, don’t limit yourself to a one
time conversation. Ask how things are going, share the moments with your child. And be sure to
regularly discuss expectations for what is appropriate and not appropriate to share. Remember, you are
setting the stage for many important experiences that will carry them far into the future.
Monitor Regularly
Finally, don’t forget one of the most important tools you have as a parent – monitoring your child. You
can do this in a variety of ways including physical monitoring and program based monitoring. With the
physical time, it is exactly as it sounds. Sit next to or near your child as they use the technology. This not
only enables you to see what they are doing, but it gives a great platform for talking points. Program
monitoring is also exactly as it sounds. You can utilize any number of programs, either software or
internet based, that enables you to do everything from monitor the time they are online to following
exact keystrokes they make.
Technology is here to stay and with the rise of the number of schools continuously asking students to
complete assignments online or bring devices to school, you can be assured your students will regularly
use the technology as part of their modern learning. By following a few simple guidelines, you can learn
to navigate the technology easily and help keep your kids safe.
